To celebrate the New Year without a company – only the idea of this is capable of many in horror. It seems that such a scenario suggests that something in our life has gone wrong, and we strive to find our satellites with all our eyes-we write to friends with whom we have never met for the entire outgoing year, we are going to visit parents, knowingly knowing that these gatherings will not end in anything good. But what if you still try to spend this main night of the year with you?

When there is less and less time before the New Year, the pace of life is significantly accelerated. We will fuss, trying to catch everything: close things at work, congratulate customers, go shopping in their free time to find an outfit, buy gifts and the necessary products – preparation for the holiday is in full swing.

And among the many questions that stand before us on the eve of the New Year (what to wear, what to give, what to cook) is worth the only one: with whom to celebrate? It is he who most of all worries many on New Year’s Eve.

This main holiday in the year exacerbates the feeling of the line and the transition. We involuntarily begin to think: what I have achieved, where I am now being, how I used this year, that I have now? Some questions cause us a sense of deep dissatisfaction with oneself and fear for the future. Irritation, pain, a feeling of loneliness, their own uselessness, worthlessness can be added to this.

Many do not want to face such thoughts and feelings and plunge into the New Year’s bustle and haste, hide in the common noise and smiles, basins of food and Bengal lights.

We can be angry with the world around him that he is unfair, and we can say goodbye to the idea that he owes something to us

We would not have to look so frantically with whom to celebrate the holiday if it weren’t so scary to stay alone with us. But, alas, few people know how to be a friend – supporting and accepting. More often we ourselves are judges, critics, prosecutors. And who would like to an eternally condemning friend?

However, if you celebrate the New Year alone, but not in the position of the victim, twisting yourself with negative forecasts and interpretations and condemning yourself, but from the position of care, interest and tenderness for yourself, it may become a starting point for the necessary changes. New experience in meeting with ourselves, which happens when we are distracted from the surrounding noise and listen to our desires.

We can be angry with the world around him that he is unfair, and we can say goodbye to the idea that he owes something to us, and stop waiting from him and others, that they will come and save us from boredom, have fun and dispel. We can arrange our holiday ourselves.

We can dress up a Christmas tree for ourselves and decorate the apartment. Put on a beautiful dress or comfortable pajamas, make a salad or order food at home. We can choose the traditionally watch old films or create our own ritual. We can say goodbye to the outgoing year: to remember everything good that was in it, about our successes, even small. And also – that we did not have time to do, that it could not be realized to think about what to learn and what to take into account

for the prospect.

We can simply dream and make plans, make desires and think about the future. And for all this, we only need to hear our heart and follow his voice – and for this we are enough for ourselves.